I am featuring Merak, Trompe Loeil, Sallie, Essenz and The Season Story
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Change I do think this exist profoundly in secondlife. i take this game as journey of my soul finding, something that i can not afford to do in real life. i am not scare or fear of change here. of course i still be very careful on my calculation when i do change but yeah in general it does not fear me at all. Secondlife is like my single life, life before married and become mom. I am free here to do things I want and express myself freely, it is my own little world that I created. With this in mind, I have decided to do some further changes here that ease my journey even more ….
I am so used of making decision so quick and face the consequences alone. Living abroad away from the family when you are young teach you all this. I had been living overseas since I was 19, I hardly came back and live with parent actually. So a lot of things I had to decide alone in life. Until i got married i have my husband helping me on making some of the decision, i have been slowing down since then. my decision making getting small and no longer that important like what must i cook for today, is it time for hair cut etc. That is why I deliberately enjoy my freedom in SL on making decision. I make decision here lavishly, I have nothing to loose because at the end of the day we are all can log off and go hiatus for a while and come back when we want to. I love being totally independent here.
I have to admit I am terrible with this department “Pretense”. Even it is in Second Life where it is so easy for us to actually make things seem to be true which actually is not. There is no body language here, everything just assumption, pre-text reading and accumulation of half baked story that goes around through the grapevine. For me! When I dislike something it is written all over me, I can not hide it nor fake it. It will be right there through the action I take. That is why I enjoy to be alone most of the time, this will save me from being misunderstood [ which seems not really working ] nor getting involve on things that has no benefit to anyone at all. I love being alone producing something and stay focus on it, and log off at anytime I want to!
I did a lot of thinking today about how am I going forward with my blogging, I enjoy blogging so much, making pictures, decorating and styling for fashion. However when the thing becomes too demanding, it kills all the joy I have. I don’t like to be pushed around just for the sake of numbers or popularity contest if you want to call it. I like to have my own pace and enjoy what I am doing. Unfortunately taking sponsors for blogging comes with all this requirement, some sponsors really concern about the number of views and favorites our of their bloggers’ posts, this really kills the whole thing of being creative.
Going to dark tone is not really my forte but it is exciting to actually pick them up and try to style them. I hope I get the essence of what this skin suppose to represent in character.I am featuring some new releases from around the grid … The Skinnery, Dead Dollz, Essenz and Vanity Hair … let’s list them
I always like pinup style, they are fun and sexy, and i think this swimsuit from deaddollz is perfect for that mood …
I am not really into logo head nor dark skin, but this is fun to actually try them out once a while. I am featuring the new skin applier especially for Logo Head Alex by Bold and Beauty, and this skin is only available for dark tone, meaning from tan onward. I mix and match things around from Dead Dollz, Hive, DaD Design and fun stuffs you can find at on9, The Chapter Four or The Liaison Collaborative. Let’s list them …
// DIGS, Garbaggio, Tartessos Arts, DeadDollz, AvaWay, ChicChica, The Skinnery, Veechi, Arte, Bahaus Movement, The Liaison Collaborative and The Arcade//
Sometimes not fearing of failure is actually the strength we build internally unconsciously. I keep learning from each fail I do in life, especially so in Second Life, the parameter for failure is so soft compare to the real world, as we have the option to control what we want for the outcome. What we give out is really what we are going to harvest.
Cute summer set from DeadDollz, I always adore how DeadDollz give a special touch at the back, it is not just sexy but pretty and cute too. I love the pattern spread this time, it is very summery and stylist. Along with it I mix and match this pretty dress with other details I have, let’s list them …
Sometimes we have to know how to prioritize things and managing our capacity well. Second life is not the only life I have to manage *giggles, my real life is pretty demanding too especially being a mom to one tweeny girl. This month is the school holiday so I know it will be very very tight with her around me almost 24 hours a day :p But I do enjoy her company the most, there are a lot we can catch up when she spend more time with me, going to the mall, or simply just watch TV at home together.
I am actually working on the small beach houses behind this picture, but the thought of hot summer vacation at the beach can not stop me of making this picture. Let’s focus on what I am wearing here, and I will do another post for the things behind me.
No one is in liability for our own happiness, it is our job to do just that. So we don’t owe anyone anything at all nor have the right to blame anyone at all …
N21 is here for the new round, I love this new set by Kalopsia and wait for my decor post that cover things from N21 including the new set by Cheeky Pea. Stay tuned
Some style look for this week …